On Saturday night I was invited to a birthday party of a friend who is turning 30. The theme of her party was “30 is Sexy”. On the invitation she said to wear something that makes you feel HOT! At first, I put on a tight dress that actually looked pretty awesome if I do say so myself. But I noticed, walking around my apartment, I kept yanking it down and worrying about what was showing.

Then I had the realization that “sexy” to me isn’t the same “sexy” that most people think of when they hear the word. To me, it means feeling comfortable, showing off a little (not too much) skin, and owning your look. So I ended up in a flowy tutu and silk top with a super cool back. I was comfortable and chic, and I definitely felt hot as per the invitation…It was a balmy 90 degrees that night!